We don't live for our careers. It is a large part of our life and should gain our full attention and effort, but I can no longer base HOW I am doing in life FROM my career. There is much more to it than that.
My thing to ask you as you prepare for this big day is "what do YOU care about?" Forget about what your mom cares for or those traditions. Today, we celebrate the love you and your husband have!
We can create as many New Year Resolutions as we would like, but if we don't fuel our desire to achieve the changes we wish to see then we will be among the thousands who become disappointed.