My thing to ask you as you prepare for this big day is "what do YOU care about?" Forget about what your mom cares for or those traditions. Today, we celebrate the love you and your husband have!
I have been chasing after things that were meant for me in a previous season, and not meant to follow me into my new season. I am preparing so far into the future that I am rushing the present. I can't even enjoy my smallest wins today because I'm stuck in the thought pattern of "I'm not where I thought I would be."
We can create as many New Year Resolutions as we would like, but if we don't fuel our desire to achieve the changes we wish to see then we will be among the thousands who become disappointed.